The Backwards

Habitually, when you love someone, you tend to do the same things over and over again for them... with emphasis on what they prefer. Eventually, when you do it too often, the person stops to appreciate it and sometimes get annoyed. From time to time, we need go BACKWARDS to reassess the effect of our mode of expression in order to move forward with a better strategy. Relationships... not just with your lovers, but also with your friends, family and colleagues need to be REFRESHED.

Sometimes, when we take the step BACKWARDS, you find them moving FORWARD towards you. Is it because they miss the old habits? Or perhaps wonder why we stopped doing what we did?

Sometimes, when we turn to look BACKWARDS, we could also see who are the friends and foes behind us. You should never trust anyone except for your family and of course your loved ones.

Sometimes, it is good to fall BACKWARDS when we enjoy too much success that we forget ourselves, so we remember where our roots were from.

An advice my dad gave me once was, at times in our lives, we need to move 1 step BACKWARDS to move 4 steps FORWARD. Try it, and you'll know what it means for yourself.